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Fred's avatar

I do like that communication is the crux of your argument but it’s just the same issue in the opposite direction. Stating that if the conversation isn’t had then it’s not a relationship while also deriding people who seem to be seeking that but aren’t likely to be given the chance to due to modern dating conventions is just settling for the current state of affairs. Which you being someone with an avoidant attachment style benefits from.

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Brendon Holder's avatar

printing this out as supplemental reading for my therapist!

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